forgive -- forget ??

Everyone should forgive.
Days are long but the years?..they're short
why waist that on holding grudges, feeling sad, annoyed, hurt, and all the other feelings that feel really bad to us. I mean of course there's a reason why we all have these types of feelings. Maybe a loss of a loved one or friend..or an end of a relationship...or a fight with someone you love..and many more reasons there could be. I mean to really forgive..would make all of us a stronger person..im not saying to forget any of it but its best to forgive and put it all behind us and spend all that time that would have been spent on feeling those bad feelings, on something else that who knows? could be something wonderful..

Granted that there are some things that we can not forgive certain people for but for the rest of it..its time to let go dont you think?

Well..Im learning now about all of this and im trying to start forgiving people who have done me wrong and im kindof an emotional person but im going to learn how not to take to heart so much about what people say think or do. I mean because in my head its like..I would want someone to forgive me for anything ive done to them you know? so why wouldnt i do the same back?..

Dont ever let anyone walk all over you..not even the slightest bit. Ive learned in the past some people you try to help out of the kindness of your heart..only come back to ask for more. I guess its one of the many lessons life has to offer. =)